The Week, in a Word

“Growing” October 30, 2010

Filed under: Uncategorized — Jacqueline @ 12:38 am

Trying to make good decisions

Impossibly red leaves

Being a sophomore is not as easy as I thought it would be. Granted, the challenges are different and better than the ones I had last year–– I love having close friends and being able to live with almost all of them, and I’m less intimidated by courses than I used to be. But it’s slowly dawning on me that I’m not such a kid anymore.

There’s a lot that’s great about being in this weird phase of psuedo-adulthood where you don’t have to pay your own electricity bills or cook your own meals but you get to decide for yourself whether or not you’re going to have a second cookie and if you want to go on a walk and look at the changing leaves. But this stage isn’t going to last forever, and I can’t pretend it will. It’s scary to think that I have to figure out how to navigate the world.

Big decisions are looming: study abroad, majors and minors, writing the sophomore paper (basically laying out a plan for your courses for junior and senior years, and what you think you’ll do after graduation). There’s a big part of me that doesn’t want to have to make those choices–– it would be so much nicer just to stand still for a while and be a college kid.

The thing is, you don’t go to college (especially not Swarthmore) to learn how to be a college kid. The whole point is to grow up, and while it’s bittersweet and terrifying and full of decisions I’m not sure I want to make, it’s electrifying too.

But for tonight, I’m going to an a capella concert and hanging out with Miriam and Mariah, and trying to enjoy what I have right at this moment. Being an adult can wait.

 

“Culture” October 1, 2010

Filed under: Uncategorized — Jacqueline @ 1:24 am

Recreating art

Being statues

This past Saturday was Campus Philly Day, when all the museums in Philadelphia are free to students with college IDs. I missed it last year, so I was determined to make it this time. Miriam, Linda, Hannah and Liz and I ventured into the city and I finally made it to the Museum of Art (the place where Rocky climbed all those steps in the movie). The building was huge, and as you might expect, full of high-brow, thought-provoking, and frequently famous pieces of art. So we frolicked around looking at paintings and ancient sculptures and photographs and having a great deal of fun. When we came back to campus, a girl in my dorm said something like, “It sounds like you had a nice, cultured day.” And she was right.

Now, being the word nerd I am, I started thinking about her word choice, and what the word “culture” can mean. I’ve been thinking a lot about culture in general lately, partially because of my Anthropology class, and partially because I’ve had to explain the culture of Swarthmore to lost specs, their parents, and the new priest.

You might think that after being here for a year, I’d be pretty good at describing the college’s atmosphere, but it’s harder than it sounds. It’s hard to make accurate statements about a large group of people, to speak generally and correctly. But here’s what I’ve got so far:

Swatties work hard. We go to official study sessions and create informal study groups. Study breaks, study parties, independent study… if you aren’t willing to learn and use these phrases, you won’t get far here. Most of us have jobs, too, in libraries and as tutors and babysitters in the local town. Once you start considering the number of students who play sports (40%), join clubs (we have over 100 student organizations) and attempt to have personal hobbies, you’ll realize why Swarthmore students are always running somewhere.

But in the words of Aristotle, “Man is a social animal.” If you don’t want to go insane here, you need people to talk to, people who will make you laugh and give you advice when it’s 11:45 at night and you have a head cold and need to study for a test and do a hundred pages of reading before an 8:30 class the next morning. Luckily, Swarthmore has lots of candidates for friends. With very few exceptions, it would be hard to describe a Swattie as the stereotypical popular kid in high school. Consequently, most of us are pretty open-minded, down to earth, and just plain nice. There are exceptions, of course–– this may be an admissions blog, but I can’t pretend Swat is a Utopia–– but most people here want to get to know each other and be friends.

There are debates here, arguments about everything from authors to religion to cereal preferences. People have strong opinions here, and aren’t apologetic about them. But there’s almost always an element of civility to these conversations. Usually, they’re more about exchanging ideas than being proven right.

I guess what I’m getting at, the defining aspect of Swarthmore that I always seem to circle back to, is its intensity. It’s a cliche to say college students work hard and play hard, and it might be more accurate to say that Swarthmore students think hard when they’re working and playing. That’s our culture.

 

 
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